Spotting?

So it is Sunday and it is time to start testing for ovulation. So I did the test & it is negative, except I have spotting? Although this may seem normal for some people, it is not normal for me. Last month I had spotting around the same time, but that was the first time that had ever happened. I am so confused & frustrated. I talked to my OB/GYN's nurse last month and she said it was normal. I hate being compared to other women. It is not normal for me and I don't know what it means. Does it mean I am ovulating, going to ovulate or does it mean there is something else going on. Maybe I am just letting my nerves and fears get the best of me, but I just don't know what it all means and I don't know how to get my doctor & his nurse to understand that I am concerned & frustrated. URGGGGGHHHHHHHH!